DefendingIslam, on 31 December 2010 - 06:47 PM, said:
But wouldn't the Jewish custom of calling people "sons of God" out of respect- indeed calling all of humanity as being the "children of God", and God as "their Father"- negate their other statements, or at least is it not blasphemous as far as Islam is concerned?
As far as I know such would be the case - calling people sons of God out of respect is blasphemy- as evidence is Ayah 9:30 of the Qur'an and statements of the scholars about what happens if someone calls someone "son of Allah" or "brother of Allah", since they are doing the same as the pagans (akin to how someone's Islam is negated if they prostate to an idol, regardless of the intention).
Basic books (fiqh and aqida books written for common people) state that phrases like "son of God" or "The Father God" cause kufr.
Having said that, consider the following (Matthew 5:9):
"Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God."
Here, obviously, the word "children" is not used in the real sense, but it is employed to mean something like "beloved creatures of Allahu ta'ala."
I have not read any detailed discussion of this issue by any scholar. What Imam Qurtubi rahimahullah wrote appears to support your understanding; but see also Imam Razi's rahimahullah explanation of 9/30. Do you have access to Imam Razi's tafsir?
This post has been edited by Murat Yazici: 31 December 2010 - 07:40 PM